Saturday, July 13, 2024

Voyeur Kink Roles Themes In BDSM Glossary 7

Top Heavy; If you are top heavy, as a female this could mean you have a very full/larger bust (that appears too large for your frame). When compared to your slender physicality. This may mean you carry a disproportionate weight above your waist, on your upper body. Which can make your upper body appear fuller/larger. Many years ago men with a voyeur kink would go to extreme lengths to catch sight of a women who was Top heavy. They would covertly watch women undress through spy holes in changing rooms just to catch sight of a women with a very large bust. But today with breast augmentation plastic surgery being commonplace. There are many women who are top heavy, through choice.

Toy Role in BDSM; A toy role in voyeur kink relates to a generally younger female who doesn't mind being a plaything (toy) or tool to provide amusement and pleasure for her partner. Or being treated as an object to satisfy her partner, as a sex toy, usually under the control of a dominant or master in bdsm.

Unicorn; Is a bi sexual woman who is flexible and willing to join a couple (usually hetrosexual couple) for a threesome and other sexual encounters of an intimate nature. The term Unicorn means she is rare and unique, like a mythical unicorn. Commonly found in swinging and polyamourous communities.

Vanilla Sex;

Vanilla Sex; Is conventional sex, colloquially known as vanilla sex, and is classed as sexual behaviour that falls within the normal range of intimacy for a culture or sub culture. Typically involves sex that does not include elements of BDSM, kink, fetishism or happens within a marriage or relationship. What is regarded as conventional sex depends on cultural and sub-cultural norms. Among heterosexual couples in the western world for example, conventional sex often refers to sexual intercourse in the missionary position. Voyeur kink refers to people who enjoy secretly watching others during sex or intimacy.

Voyeur Kink Roles & Fetishes

Voyeur in BDSM; Is a person who enjoys watching others, usually in a sexual environment without participating. Either in person or hidden from view. The typical voyeur is imagined to be watching a couple having sex from another room. Or Spying through the keyhole in the next room.

Waif in BDSM; In Bdsm waif is a younger person who seeks a strong older nurturing figure (like a Daddy or Master) in their life and relationships. The waif may role play in the form of a ‘ ingénue ‘ an innocent submissive who uses their innocence to garner protection, security from the Daddy or Master.

Wet Wipe; A phrase originally coined some years ago by Thomas Hugo and used in his 2nd bdsm novel ‘ You may attend me today ‘ which refers to the tongue being used during rimming, as a ‘ wet wipe ‘ tool in bdsm play.

Wrestling (Play fighting) in BDSM; Wrestling or play fighting is a kink that many people often forget about. Its the perfect way to physically Dominate your submissive and let them know who is truly in charge. The Dom and sub can wrestle each other and the Dom gets the sub into a position they can not get out of that is when the real fun begins. You too can incorporate wrestling into Bdsm playtime, maybe as a way to spice things up or perhaps as a new way of showing your submissive that you will always be in control of them, even if it is just physically. And no, you don’t need to be a professional wrestler in order to take part in the fun.

Voyeur Kink Play

Age Play in BDSM; Age-play is an umbrella term for kink relationships that involve at least one person role-playing as a younger aged person than they actually are, usually as a baby, toddler, or child. Age play relationships can be platonic and SFW. Definition: SFW is an abbreviation for ‘ safe for work ‘.

Anal Sex in BDSM; Is the act of persons having penetrative or oral sex analy. Using a penis or other phallic shaped object like a ‘ strap on ‘, or fingers or tongue. The act is sometimes called anilingus. Anal sex is enjoyed by people of all sexual orientation. If anal sex between a male (bottom) and a female top (domme) using a strap on, it is called pegging. The anus is known to be extremely sensitive and can tear easily if sex is rough, so lashings of lube should be applied beforehand, and then steady as she goes should be the mantra. Ensure finger nails are trimmed and sharp edges are filed beforehand. Some aficionados advocate inserting partial cotton balls over your nail tops, inside a protective disposable latex glove (or other glove like Nitrile, or Vinyl glove, or Synthetic glove) if either party is allergic to latex.

Do this to prevent any sharp areas of your nails causing unnecessary discomfort to the recipient of your fingers. It is recommended you start slowly with 1 finger and encourage the recipient to move on to the finger as they get used to the sensation. Then maybe a second finger can be introduced, with the recipient taking the lead and moving on to and away from the finger, leaving them in control of how much of the finger/s or other implement that they receive.

Voyeur Kink Covertly Watching Blow Jobs & Blood Play

Bastinado in BDSM; Is a practice in the BDSM community where the soles of a partners feet are subjected to beating, flogging, and whipping. This can mean using a cane, whip, or crop. Also, the recipient’s feet are tied and the soles are exposed. It is a form of foot fetish which traces its roots back to Middle Eastern and far Eastern torture practices.

Blood Play in BDSM; Can happen in a variety of different scenarios. It can include having sex while the female partner is ovulating (during menstruation). Also doctor role play while using instruments, needle play where needles are pushed through the skin, and the use of knives and other surgical instruments during blood play.

Blow Job & Deep Throat; Is the act of performing sexual stimulation to the penis using the mouth tongue and lips. Taking the penis in to the partners mouth and stimulating the shaft while a hand traverses the shaft. This can lead to deep-throating, where the penis is guided down the back of the throat as far as the partner can go. Too deep and it can cause the gag reflect to happen, in the throat of the person providing the blow job.

Blowbang Party; A Blow Bang party is a swingers party similar to that of a gangbang, When usually a woman performs oral sex on three or more male partners in a group setting, bringing all to climax without being penetrated herself and they all climax (ejaculate) over the person performing the sex act. A BlowBang party can lead to Bukkake or Gokun.

Bondage in BDSM; Bondage equates to the B in BDSM. This comprises of separate erotic practices and/or role playing. That are sometimes combined with discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal erotic fetishes & kinks.

Secretly Watching Breath Play Bukkake Blood Play & Blow Jobs From a Keyhole

Breath Play in BDSM; Erotic asphyxiation (breath play) is the consensual restricting of the air-flow of a sexual partner for a brief period of time. Breath play is a sexual activity favoured by some members of the BDSM community. Despite many sources claiming it is safe to practice breath play, the activity is still dangerous and can cause permanent damage and even can be deadly if done incorrectly. Psychological motivations include power dynamics, curiosity, and pleasure can be derived from the risk and panic, also trust issues are involved, and the added release of endorphins can be a motivator. This is considered to be ‘ edge play ‘ which can have extreme consequences if it goes wrong. So should not be practiced by inexperienced people. Anyone thinking of doing this should educate themselves and if they do proceed should do tentatively and with extreme caution.

 

Bukkake in BDSM; Is where several men ejaculate on a consenting woman (or man, depending on your persuasion.) The word bukakke is Japanese and means to slosh or dash with water. Bukkake implies shooting at her face but in bdsm they can also drench any part of her body that she wishes. Some women love the powerful sensation of arousing many men intensely all at once. And being the cause and recipient of their end result. Other women get off on being the centre of attention, of many men and being showered, by the male attention.