Friday, February 23, 2024

Facesitting Facials Feminization Figging Fisting Gang Bang Glory Hole in BDSM Glossary 10

Electro Play; Is the practise of getting yourself or your partner off using electrical stimulation. Some e-stimulating devices can cause prickly, tickly or painful sensations as well, making them suitable for use as a kinky BDSM torture toy. The sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, with particular emphasis on the genitals, using a power source (such as TENS, EMS, violet wands, medical e-stim devices or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation. Electrostimulation has been associated with BDSM activities, and erotic electro-stimulation is an evolution of that practice. Always check the cords and plugs and electrodes for any wear and damage, before you start any electro play.

One possible danger for those who use the popular violet wands and other electronic devices is the albeit unlikely but real risk of ‘ ground fault ‘. Which can cause a household current to come through the equipment if it is wet. Using e-stim above the waist is not recommended for inexperienced practitioners.

Facesitting/Queening in Bdsm:

Facesitting is a popular sexual practice in the Bdsm community. It is also known as queening or kinging, is a sexual practice with one partner sitting over the other's face, sometimes allowing for oral–genital or oral–anal contact. The sitting partner may face in either direction. Sometimes special furniture is used, such as a "queening stool" or "smotherbox". A queening stool is a low seat which fits over the submissive's face and contains an opening to allow oral-genital and/or oral-anal stimulation of the domme while seated. Facesitting is common among dominant and submissive individuals, for demonstrating superiority and for sexual gratification. The full-weight body-pressure, smothering, moisture, body odours, and darkness can be perceived as powerful sexual attractions or compulsions.

The person sat upon may be in bondage, restrained, and be sexually submissive, or simply held down by the body-weight of the other person. In some cases, the submissive will consume the dominant's bodily waste(s) (urolagnia or coprophilia).

The position allows the pelvic floor muscles (PFM) to relax and therefore partly exposing the labia minora to intimate touch. The gluteus maximus and levator ani muscles, the major muscles of the crotch, can relax and sag allowing easy access to the vagina and anus. Additionally, the stool allows for greater comfort and allows for the activity to be done for a longer period of time.

Facesitting - Facials - Fear Play & Feminisation in BDSM;

Facials in BDSM;
This facial activity occurs in both homosexual and heterosexual sexual encounters. Semen is ejaculated over the recipients face, by 1 or more individuals. It can also be used as a form of humiliation within BDSM kink.

Fear Play; Is a form of psychological play where participants consent to being made to feel fearful due to physical or mental threats made by the other party. In a power exchange relationship like total power exchange (TPE) the submissive may have consented to being threatened by the dominant, and/or given a task that both of them know the submissive can’t complete. With the understanding that a punishment will be made if the submissive fails the task. Such a punishment could be spanking while restrained, or a degrading or humiliating punishment. The mental stress and pressure may be arousing to some who face an imminent threat of pain or violence. Fear play is a way to experience a rush of adrenaline and other hormones associated with fear as part of the scene.

Facesitting - Feminization;

Feminization is a practice in dominance and submission or bdsm kink sub-cultures, which involves reversing gender roles, making a submissive partner – typically a man – take on a feminine role, often for humiliation-based sexual pleasure. This may include putting make up on the face of a male, also cross-dressing them in feminine clothing such as lingerie, goading them to act in a feminine manner, and referring to a male using a feminine name, and using them for anal sex as the receiving partner, making them wear prosthetic breasts, or tucking. Feminization as a sexual fetish is not the same thing as being a transgender woman, and the submissive partners engaging in it are typically heterosexual men. It has been speculated that the fetish is rooted in societal pressure for men to be traditionally masculine. Some people feminize as an early transition test to explore a possible gender identity change.

Facesitting - Fetishist in BDSM;

Someone who is aroused by non sexual parts of the body or objects. Needing them in order to reach a climax.

Facesitting - Figging;

As part of kink ginger rhizomes (ginger root) vegetable is used as a slow mild torture. Whereby a piece of ginger rhizome is cut and shaped like a butt plug or phallic object. Then placed in the anus, urethra, or vagina. The effect is a stinging sensation that can be very uncomfortable for some as the ginger interacts with any moistness of the body causing discomfort. It is sometimes used by Dominants as a punishment for a submissive. The anus is usually the most preferred orifice as the vagina’s wetnees can make it unbearable. The stinging sensation can last long after the ginger has been removed. Using water or melting ice cubes in that area can help dissipate the burning sensation.

Fire Play;

In the BDSM community, fire play is a type of sexual play that involves fire near or directly on a person's skin. Fire play is a form of high temperature play that involves using a flame on or very close to the skin. The flame is typically on or applied with a fire wand (essentially a small torch), and frequently utilizes 70% isopropyl alcohol as fuel.

Fisting;

Is a sex act that involves inserting one or more hands in to a persons vagina or anus. Once insertion is complete, the fingers are either clenched into a fist or kept straight. Fisting may be performed on oneself, but it is most often performed on one person by another. It gives a feeling of someone being very deep inside a person, who feels the fullness of fingers stretching. In double fisting two hands are placed inside the anus or vagina separately or together.

FootJob;

Is the sexual stimulation of the genitals or vagina using the foot, especially the toes. It can be considered a ‘ foot fetish ‘.

Foursome;

Is a sexual group activity that usually involves four people, usually evenly balanced between male and female partners (two couples) coming together.

Fuckdoll in BDSM;
A woman who is only seen by a Dominant or Top as a sex object, to use for sexual gratification as and when it suits them.

Fucktoy in BDSM;

A woman or man who is only seen by a Dominant or Top as a sex object, it can include the toy letting their body go limp so it can be repositioned to suit the Dominant or Top. In order for them to use the toy for sexual gratification as and when it suits them.

Gangbang; Is a group sexual activity where the focus of the group is directed towards 1 or 2 people in the group. It usually involves at least 4 participants or more. Traditionally the focus is on a female member of the group, but is not always the case. A reverse gangbang is the opposite of a traditional gangbang, where a male person/s are in the minority and become the focus of the females in the group.

Glory Hole;

Is a sex act where there is a thin wall dividing the 2 participants. The wall will have 1 or more holes big enough for a penis to be pushed through, at groin height. On the other side of the wall will be the other participant/s who want to give a blow-job or handle the person who has pushed their penis through the hole in the wall. Originally the dividing flimsy wall in-between public lavatories was used by gay men to create/facilitate a hole in the dividing wall between stalls, in order to access other men, discreetly.

A glory hole can be a booth where multiple people can access the same protruding penis. The fact that usually the owner of the penis and the other party may not see each other’s face, can add to the arousal during the experience.

The glory hole is usually used to access a penis, but have been used to access a mouth, anus, breast, testicles, vagina, and toes.