Friday, February 23, 2024

Consensual Non Consent Collar Lead Chastity Belt - Controlling Psychology In BDSM Glossary 8

Bunny Play in BDSM; Bunny (Rabbit) play is one of the more popular pet roles that submissive’s like to align themselves with. Consensual Non Consent can be used with docile, un-threatening, soft and cuddly bunnies. The range of activities a handler or Daddy dom can engage the bunny with are numerous, and help build a bunny’s confidence, if bunny happens to be shy. Bunnies can be offered healthy treats like carrots, lettuce, and strawberries. They can be taught how to ‘ beg ‘, sit like they have hind legs when they need attention (with paws squeezed together and turned downward) to show non threatening behaviour. They can also show their handler that they want to please them by showing their tongue, hanging out, in order to get a chest rub. They love having their ears licked, and necks gently squeezed.

Bunny’s love being groomed, falling asleep in their handlers lap, being put to beddy byes. And having their favourite bedtime story read to them by handler/Daddy, until they drift off to sleep, hearing the words ‘ Good bunny ‘ or ‘ Good girl ‘ as they drift off to sleep.

Consensual Non Consent Chastity Belt/Lock in BDSM;

Chastity, also known as purity, is a virtue related to temperance. Someone who is chaste refrains either from sexual activity that is considered immoral or from any sexual activity, according to their state of life. In some contexts, for example when making a vow of chastity, chastity means the same as celibacy. In Bdsm a chastity belt is a locking item of clothing designed to prevent the wearer from engaging in sexual intercourse or masturbation. Such chastity belts or chastity locks are designed to prevent the man’s appendage from greatly expanding.

They were historically designed for women, ostensibly for the purpose of chastity. Chastity belts were devised to protect women from being raped or to dissuade women and their potential sexual partner from sexual temptation. Modern versions of the chastity belt are predominantly, but not exclusively, used in the BDSM community, and chastity belts are now designed for male wearers in addition to female wearers

Consensual Non Consent Cock and Ball Torture in BDSM;

Is a BDSM or sexual activity involving the application of pain or constriction to the mans penis or testicles., Or genital piercing, wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation, kneeing or kicking.[1] The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through erotic humiliation, or knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant. Many of these practices carry significant health risks so should not be undertaken lightly. A ball crusher is a device made from either metal or often clear acrylic that squeezes the testicles slowly by turning sets of nuts or screws. How tight it is clamped depends on the pain tolerance of the person it is used on. A ball crusher is often combined with bondage, either with a partner or by oneself, or with other types of torture or impact play.

Consensual Non Consent Collar & Lead Controlling Psychology In BDSM

A ball stretcher is a sex toy that is used to elongate the scrotum and provide a feeling of weight pulling the testicles away from the body. This can be particularly enjoyable for the wearer as it can make an orgasm more intense, as testicles are prevented from moving up. Intended to make one's testicles permanently hang much lower than before (if used regularly for extended periods of time), this sex toy can be potentially harmful to the genitals as the circulation of blood can be easily cut off if over-tightened.

Collar & Lead (or Leash) in BDSM; People involved in committed bdsm relationships may have formal collaring ceremonies where the Dominant officially places a collar (usually leather or fabric collar) around the consenting submissive subordinate’s neck. And during play may attach a lead to the collar that is around the neck of the submissive. This is done to reinforce the dominants role. Some BDSM collars come with a metal D-ring to accommodate the leash. Although some submissives also include a built-in leash that is directly attached to the collar. When out in public some dominants show they have power over a submissive by trailing the lead or leash from the neck collar, then routed discreetly under the jacket/coat lapel, and down the inner sleeve of the submissives clothing, so it comes out where the wrist is.

Collar & Leash Attached to Collar

It means that while the dominant may be holding hands with the submissive, the end of the lead could also be in his hand so he is able to give it a jerk to his submissive if she/he starts trailing behind, or simply to show his authority. In a similar way to how a pet may be encouraged along while walking with a dog lead attached. For added discretion, some submissives may choose to wear a piece of jewellery like a discreet choker/necklace instead of a regular collar. Symbolically, the leash represents security and protection for a submissive as they surrender complete control to their partners.

Collaring in Bdsm;

Is a ceremony whereby a Master/Dominant places a type of collar around (usually) a submissive wearers neck, either in private or in front of a group. As a mark/symbol of taking ownership/enslaving/subjugating the recipient. Sometimes the Master/Dominant will choose a collar that has rings attached to the collar so the Master/Dominant can further attach a lead to one of the rings, at times of his/her choosing. A similar form of ‘ lead ‘ engagement is when the submissive has a nose ring and offers the Master/Dominant access to it when it is positioned in her nose. So that the dominant has the opportunity to attach a lead to the nose ring. The nose is a most sensitive area, and will cause the submissive to be easily led once the lead is attached to the nose ring.

Collaring Psychology in Bdsm

Due to the pain it will cause if the submissive doesn’t move hastily in line with the lead. This can also be dangerous if the lead is jerked away from the nose. It could cause the attachment to tear through the nose flesh, so this is not advisable. Whereas the neck collar when attached to a lead can at least give the submissive some ability to resist being led. However in most cases it is consensual and the collar wearer enjoys being led. The psychology behind being colared is to let the submissive mentally become accepting of her masters directions.

It has been known that Bdsm couples go out in public with the lead attached to the wearers neck collar (it can be hidden wearing high neck attire) and the lead is then passed across the shoulder and down the sleeve of the worn clothing, then it comes out at the wrist, where the master can still hold/lead his muse surreptitiously, and most people they walk past in public are none the wiser.

Consensual Non Consent Psychology in BDSM;

I want to be manhandled, and pinned down, slow choked within an inch of my life. I want to be forced, used like f- - k meat, slapped about the face if I don’t comply. Until it draws blood. All of the aforementioned and more. But only with my consent. Those in to Consensual Non Consent in BDSM want to be violated…over and over, but done convincingly, within their pre agreed limits. I want him to force himself in my rear, says Montanna, a 23-year-old Reddit user in her post, on the subreddit m/CNC. She is speaking anonymously to protect her identity, and is part of a community of over 150,000 people looking for partners to practice consensual non-consent CNC with. The CNC kink, also known as rape play, is exactly that one where two or more people agree to an intimate encounter that simulates a rape scene.

It’s a mix of role playing at the extreme end of a power exchange in which one person is “raped” by another. Leaving the victim dishevelled, broken, but satisfied. Consensual Non-Consent is said to be ‘ not actual rape ‘, but it will come as close as possible to it. Moreover; it is a BDSM scene heavily discussed between the two parties with established boundaries and safe words. It requires complete trust between the people involved for it to be safe, and consensual. The number of women in Bdsm who want to experience the ‘ broken ‘ trauma of rape play (on their terms) is increasing exponentially year on year. In some forms on CNC safe words are not in place or are sometimes ignored as momentum carries the play forward. Some people use CNC to relive traumatic sexual assault experiences in their life.